Tuesday, August 17, 2010

Lunch With Grandma

Yes, I still have a lot of mission trip writing to do, but I have to jump in here one more time before I get to that.  Since we got back I have been tending to the things that just couldn't wait any longer, like funerals and jury duty.  Finally, this week, I have gotten to a few of the people on my list.  Literally.  I have a list of people that I need to call, see, email, people that just got neglected while I was gone.  Today I went and picked up Grandma Brantley and took her to lunch.  We just always called them Grandma and Grandpa because their granddaughters were in our youth group when we came and that's all I ever heard them called.  When my kids were little, we would go and visit them.  Grandpa always showed Joshua his knife collection, and the girls always played with the barbie dolls that were left there by the granddaughters.  We always took by something homemade on Christmas Eve and visited for a while.  It's been 11 years since Grandpa left us.  I adored him.  Absolutely adored him.  Grandma and I talked about him at lunch today and I told her that I always go for the ones that like to act like big bull dogs but are really big teddy bears inside.  I had Grandpa figured out from the start, and I was right.  For years they sat right behind us in church. Grandpa and I had many heart to heart talks that I will never forget.  He let me see the real Grandpa and I loved him just the way he was.  Grandma and I became much closer after Grandpa died.  We laugh and talk and never have a quiet moment when we're together.  Today, while we were sitting in the restaurant, Joshua just happened to come in.  Grandma hadn't seen him in so long and she was so thrilled to see him and he certainly remembered her!  We talked about how blessed she is to be her age and SO healthy and able to do all she does.  She still cooks lunch for her family most days, and I do mean cooks!  She talked about her devotions that she had read just this week. Another elderly couple from church came over to our table and were just shocked to see us together.  They asked if we were related.  We both just looked at each other and neither of us said anything for a few seconds.  Finally we both laughed and I said "Well, yes!"  Grandma had known them for years, I had known them for years, but none of knew we knew each other.  Finally, I told them that we had always called them Grandma and Grandpa and that our kids had always called them Grandma and Grandpa, for all of our 25 years here.  They went on to their table and sat down and we laughed about it.  All I know is that I have spent a whole lot of years very far away from most of my family.  My children have had several Grandma and Grandpas that are not any blood relation. We have had many relationships that have bathed us in love.  God has blessed us in ways we could never have dreamed.  My visits with Grandma are precious to me.  I look forward to them.  They are not always for her benefit.  Sometimes I need her to be my friend and I always know where to find her and she always has time.  We walked out of the restaurant and Grandma took my hand and she said "I think we are relation, I think that happened a long time ago."  I have to agree.

Friday, August 13, 2010

Happy 27th

27 years ago today I married Mr. Wonderful!  Today we celebrated by doing our favorite thing...going to the beach!  I have a LOT of blogging to catch up on, I know, but I just had to step in and let you know about the big celebration!  We used to always go away for our anniversary, but somehow after being out of the country for a month, living out of a suitcase, just finishing unpacking and doing the laundry this last week after being home already for two weeks, the thought just wasn't real appealing to either of us!  Reading at the beach sounded like great fun, and it was!  This morning I reflected on how many of our wedding attendants we are still in contact with.  We have been blessed with some very rich friendships, three wonderful children, one church family of 25 years, many brothers and sisters of many nationalities, seen alot of places and been honored to represent  and serve Him together for 27 years.  It's been a joy and blessing, and it's not over yet!!! 

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

Leaving Antigua

Tomorrow we will leave Antigua and head to Guatemala City to welcome our team here for the mission trip!  We are VERY ready to see all our kids!  The last few days we haven't done too much, just rested and done all the last minute things that we wanted to get done here. We have enjoyed the roses in our yard, the dogs waiting for me to come and play, the gardener-he cut down bananas this morning, and our sweet little apartment!  We have loved our time here and look forward to mission trip now!  We will have a construction team building a couple of houses, a medical team, and an evangelism team presenting the gospel in schools and city squares.  We look forward to seeing what God is going to do! 

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

We traveled to Pana again on Saturday.  On the way, I was able to get a picture out the window, of where the mud slide was last weekend.  Not a great picture, but maybe you get the idea! 
Saturday was a really nasty day, lots of rain, so we weren't out much.  On Sunday, we got in a boat and traveled aroound the lake.  It was a beautiful ride.  We only got off at San Pedro and just walked around a little before heading back to Pana.I love seeing the ladies all gather at one place to visit while they do their laundry.  This was pretty up close, the best picture I've been able to get of the event!I bought from this lady with the baby on her back last weekend.  This weekend too!  We chatted a little this week.  Her name is Angelina and her baby is precious...only a month old!I also got to see ladies making fresh tortillas!  It is pure torture for me to not be able to eat them, but if you saw them doing it, you would understand.  So far, we haven't been sick and I wouldn't want to ruin a good thing!On the way home, of course we saw lots of sites.  I love seeing the cows tied up with a rope while they graze.  A girl on our van had a dog with her that she let go wherever it pleased.  Most of the time, it stayed under my feet.  I was glad it wasn't a typical Guatemalan dog!  Now we are just trying to rest up from School before out team arrives on Thursday!  We are ready to see our kids!

Friday, July 16, 2010

Language School Completed!

The school usually does a field trip on Thursday, but Cary and I didn't want to go yesterday and talked our teachers into taking us on our own private field trip!  There is a mountain with a cross on it where you can hike to and see the whole city.  It was QUITE a hike!  But, we made it and Julio and Gloria were very good guides.  It was a pretty view and we had fun spotting all the places in town that we are familiar with.  Today was our last day of class and we even got graduation certificates!  I said obviously there was no test!  It was a great couple of weeks, but we are very glad that school is over and we can relax a little before the mission team arrives!  Gloria was my new teacher and I got to move out of the dark hole and into a real classroom.  I like to think that is because I got promoted the second week, but that may or may not be true.  Gloria had a great sense of humor and we laughed a lot.  

 

Wednesday, July 14, 2010

Just Another Day!

This is how we start our day...Sandy and Chico start to whine outside our door and I go and open the door. They stick their heads in, but come no farther! They get their loving, and a bone, and then they are on their way! It is SO cute! These are the pictures we took from Ginger's roof. Today was an especially clear day, no fog or clouds. It is just amazing to be up on that roof! For lunch, we ate at a nursery! It was SO pretty! I don't know what this blooming vine was, but it was beautiful! After lunch we walked around town a little, then headed home to study and do laundry. Near our apartment, we noticed they were doing a little road work. It was interesting enough that we stopped and watched! And then, as we started to walk away, we noticed the baricade! Gotta love the simplicity! So goes another day in the life....



Tuesday, July 13, 2010

There just wasn't a lot of excitement today!  We went to school this morning and then went for a wonderful lunch with Ginger!  Cary had eaten at this place before and the food was SO good!  We have not had any problems with the food here!  After lunch we took Ginger to the Jade Factory and then she came to our apartment to visit a while.  It rainned this afternoon, but I did manage to get in a little bit of playing time with the dogs.  They are very good therapy for me when my brain is on overload!  We had dinner at home and are enjoying a quiet evening at home!